I have an effective way of handling success.
I can remain calm and unflustered in the face of rejection or criticism.
I am able to understand my emotions and the role of discerning the emotions of others.
I use my persuasive abilities to influence others' moods for the positive.
I am not afraid of silence as a tool instead of letting it make me feel unworthy.
I cultivate an environment where people feel safe in expressing their opinions and emotions – even though they may be in direct conflict with my own.
I have a way to effectively deal with my worst nightmare.
If I make a mistake, I don't agonize over it; I move on.
I stay on purpose, and I can help other people to do the same.
I have an effective system for celebrating my wins.
I have an effective system of dealing with goal failure.
I am proud of my accomplishments – regardless of how great or small they may seem to others.
I attribute adversity appropriately to outside sources.
I know how to get totally focused and back on my purpose.
I have an effective system for keeping myself emotionally strong and interdependent.
I have an effective system for managing my moods.
I feel strongly about my goals, and I usually accomplish them.
I am able to single out the emotions of others.
I have an effective system for dealing with fear.
I can get out of a funk whenever I need to.
I can share my goals with other people and feel confident.
I celebrate the small victories as well as the big ones.
I know how to face my fears.
I have a system for evaluating what happened, why, and what I can learn from it.
I only confront others with important issues.
I celebrate my wins and anybody else's.
When something goes wrong, I don't make global generalizations about my life.
I know how to pick myself up and make a bigger goal after missing a goal.
I celebrate my mistakes as well as my achievements as good experience.
I am acutely aware of what fear does to my body and mind, and I never let it get in the way of achieving an important goal.
I have an effective method for debriefing every situation.
When I'm in a tough situation, I have a way to anchor myself to a feeling of security and happiness.
When I'm successful the first thing that pops in my mind is a message that tells me I deserve it.
I never secretly wish failure on any of my friends, family, or colleagues.
I can shift my moods quickly to accommodate my success.
I am not paralyzed by fear.
I enjoy giving presentations as a worthwhile risk.
I am not afraid to be confrontational.
I have an effective method for debriefing any situation – positive or negative.
I am familiar with the range of emotions and feel comfortable helping people move towards proactive/decisive mindsets.
I remain optimistic despite adversity.
I don't spend time thinking about what could have been.
I view all experiences as opportunities for learning.
I am sensitive and empathetic when other people express their enthusiasm or frustration.
I am a good listener who can understand what other people feel but do not allow their emotional states to influence my own mood.
I can constructively dissect criticism.
I don't rehearse things; I just go for it.
I can get my focus back any time I want to.
I spend my time thinking about the changes I can effect both currently and in the future.
I have an effective way to overcome fear/stage fright.
When people are off-track, I have subtle ways of getting them back on track.
I have a way of anchoring my successes for future reference.
I am bold and confident enough to tell people what I'm good at.
I know what it feels like to be 100% loved in spite of my shortcomings.