Little Voice

How to Sell Anything to Anybody….Anytime

4 Ancient Buddhist Practices That Bring Success

Sneaky Infiltrator That Sabotages Your Business

There’s a sneaky someone always trying to sabotage your business. This infiltrator leaves clues, and yet they’re mostly invisible. Sometimes you can hear him. Other times she’s sly as a fox, and invisibly leaves a mess for you to deal with.

Perhaps they make you rush… all… the… time, or get you stuck in perfection paralysis.

Maybe it’s that Little Voice that says you have no right to do the work you do, or convinces you to NOT charge enough for what you’re doing.

In the end, you look down at the catastrophic mess and ask, “How did I let this happen again?”

A Closer Look At This Intruder

You don’t have to look far to catch this slippery sneak, and yet… the first step is to admit to yourself that it’s YOU.

You see…

Self sabotage can show up in many aspects of your life and business. For example, let’s suppose this… you know inconsistency can wreak havoc on your future results, and you accept most people know consistency is key when you’re running a business.

Now — here’s what happens. You miss one broadcast email, social media post, YouTube video, or podcast, and your Little Voice goes to town beating you up over it.

That sneaky voice might tell you, “You can’t do it,” or “You’re a failure.”

Then you drop it, because you rationalize that it’s useless to continue. Your rationalization? You won’t get the same results you would have gotten if you stuck to it.


What’s going on here?

You’re equating inconsistency with failure, and you’re sabotaging the results you could have got.

The good news is… You don’t have to live this way.

The secret is to pick yourself up when you’re inconsistent and accept it without letting it define your life and business.

You don’t have to be ashamed when you don’t show up perfectly. No one is perfect. I’m not, you’re not, and your business peers and competitors aren’t, either.

How to Stop the Sabotage

One of the main reasons people sabotage themselves is because they don’t know what they want. Another reason you might self-sabotage is because, even if you’ve achieved your goal, you might not be comfortable with whatever it is.

The process of eliminating that self sabotage only involves 8 questions. You can handle that.

The questions you must ask yourself are:

  1. What is it that you really want? Whether it’s wealth, love, success, or something completely different, figure out what you want to achieve.
  2. How would you personally describe what you want? This is what your personal goal looks like to YOU. How would you define it within the parameters of your own life?
  3. If you achieved your goal, what problem might it create? Sometimes, what sabotages us is the fear of what comes next, and that fear can be completely unconscious. When you ask this question, you’re forced to think about it consciously.
  4. How could I handle that problem? Coming up with solutions can help you feel more secure, and secure people don’t sabotage themselves.
  5. What would be the results of handling that problem? When you realize that you can handle the problem, and that the results of achieving your goal can create positive change in your life, you’re less likely to sabotage and more likely to work towards the goal unimpeded.
  6. Have I ever done this before? If the answer is yes, give yourself an example of when. If the answer is no, move onto question 7.
  7. Do I know anyone who has done this? Describe what it was like for them. Maybe you yourself haven’t completed a goal like the one you’re shooting towards, but someone in your life has. Use their experience as a springboard, a way to lay the foundation so you know what you can expect.
  8. Could I do all of this? Ask yourself if you could set a goal and solve the problems, would the results be possible? If the answer is yes, you’re good to go. Go get what you want, and enjoy it.

This process is your secret weapon. Very few people know how to manage the Little Voice inside their brain, and using this process can help you master it. 

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It can help you diminish your negative self-talk (your Little Voice) and quiet your impulsive reactions to situations that are out of your control.

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The Game Starts With You

I’ve been doing this for a long time. And if there’s one thing I’ve noticed it’s that the word “sales” tends to freeze people up.

I hear a lot of people say that they don’t like sales. 

They say stuff like, “I don’t like to sell” or “ You know, Blair, I’m not made for sales.”

The main reason why people say all these crazy things is…

That’s right. Fear of rejection.

But in reality, it’s not so much “rejection” that you get in sales. It’s “objection.”

In sales, you may get people who object to certain things. But, your mind turns those objections into rejections.

It’s what the little voice in your head thinks.

The real issue in rejection, objections, and all that stuff has very little to do with the content of what you’re trying to sell. Or what they’re objecting to…

The real issue is what’s going on between your right ear and left ear.

If you can get past those little voices, you can turn those “nos” into “yeses.”

Imagine if you could just turn 20% more. That’s 20% more income without doing any extra work.

But you’re like many businesses, you’re leaving a lot of money sitting right on the table. 

Why?

Your conversions aren’t where they need to be.

Whether you’re going from call to appointment or presentation to close, you’re leaving money behind.

It’s the same thing online.

The only difference with handling objections online is that you have to anticipate what the objection would be. Then you can address it upfront in your marketing copy or your video.

But, the game starts with you.

If you’re afraid that you can’t deliver. Or, you have reservations about overpromising, you have a couple of big problems.

The first involves you going back to your business. Fix whatever it is that bothers you and gives you reservations so it’s not a problem anymore. You need confidence in your business.

More importantly, though, you have to get rid of that little voice, because the objection starts with you. And, you project it onto your customers.

It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Your fear is something of your own making. And, one of the main ways to combat that fear is to address that little voice in your head.

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Ask Questions to Close

I used to be in your shoes. A long time ago, I struggled with closing. I had a little voice telling me all the reasons why I couldn’t do it.

But you know what?

I found that if you lay down the proper foundation, closing is a natural end to a conversation.

Let me tell you what I mean by that…

There are certain basic elements that must be in place in order to close a deal. If you have these basics down, closing is more like arranging to deliver goods than closing.

Why is that?

Because if you’re laying down the basics correctly, you’re priming your customer for closing.

Here’s a breakdown of what it should look like:

Assess Needs Accurately

First, you need to show an understanding of where they’re at in their world. You do this by restating their problem.

Why is this step necessary if the client told you their problems?

Restating the problem helps both you and the client to focus.

The person you’re talking to has a million other things going on in their life. But when you articulate the problem you bring the focus back to you. It also helps you focus as well.

Ask Question to Close

All of your conversations with the prospect should set you up for closing. And that includes the questions you ask.

So, it’s not enough to state a problem. Follow it up with a question like, “Do you recognize this as being a problem in your business?”

The prospect’s response may be something along the lines of, “Yeah, Of course.”

You can also ask questions like:

Is there anything you’d like to say about that?

Does this make sense to you?

These are trial close questions. They get the person to start saying yes and agreeing with you. But, that’s not all.

The questions also allow you to see if you’re on track.

Solution or WIIFM (What Is In If For Me)

After all that, it’s time for the solution you have configured for them. But don’t stop there.

Try framing the solution in two parts: feature and benefit.

The feature may include creating metrics and understanding where the numbers come from. But the value or benefit comes from maximizing the areas they’re already good at and coaching them in the weak areas.

Take these basic, but necessary steps and closing is just a matter of delivering the goods. With your trial close questions, they’re already saying yes.

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Fear of Rejection

I’ve been doing this for a long time. And if there’s one thing I’ve noticed it’s that the word “sales” tends to freeze people up.

I hear a lot of people say that they don’t like sales.

They say stuff like, “I don’t like to sell” or “ You know, Blair, I’m not made for sales.”

The main reason why people say all these crazy things is…

That’s right. Fear of rejection.

But in reality, it’s not so much “rejection” that you get in sales. It’s “objection.”

In sales, you may get people who object to certain things. But, your mind turns those objections into rejections.

It’s what the little voice in your head thinks.

The real issue in rejection, objections, and all that stuff has very little to do with the content of what you’re trying to sell. Or what they’re objecting to…

The real issue is what’s going on between your right ear and left ear.

If you can get past those little voices, you can turn those “nos” into “yeses.”

Imagine if you could just turn 20% more. That’s 20% more income without doing any extra work.

But you’re like many businesses, you’re leaving a lot of money sitting right on the table.

Why?

Your conversions aren’t where they need to be.

Whether you’re going from call to appointment or presentation to close, you’re leaving money behind.

It’s the same thing online.

The only difference with handling objections online is that you have to anticipate what the objection would be. Then you can address it upfront in your marketing copy or your video.

But, the game starts with you.

If you’re afraid that you can’t deliver. Or, you have reservations about overpromising, you have a couple of big problems.

The first involves you going back to your business. Fix whatever it is that bothers you and gives you reservations so it’s not a problem anymore. You need confidence in your business.

More importantly, though, you have to get rid of that little voice, because the objection starts with you. And, you project it onto your customers.

It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Your fear is something of your own making. And, one of the main ways to combat that fear is to address that little voice in your head.